Andy Cohen Says He and John Mayer “Love Each Other Deeply,” Calling Their Friendship “Something Rare and Beautiful”
Andy Cohen has always been known for his candor, humor, and ability to make even the most famous stars feel at ease. But in a recent interview on Alex Cooper’s Call Her Daddy podcast, the Emmy-winning TV host shared something more intimate — a glimpse into one of the most cherished friendships of his life. Cohen spoke openly about his deep bond with musician John Mayer, calling their relationship one of the most meaningful connections he’s ever had.
Cohen, 57, has often been candid about his admiration and love for Mayer, 48, but this time, he gave fans an even closer look at the emotional depth behind their friendship. “We love each other deeply,” Cohen said with his usual warmth and sincerity. “If I could find a gay guy that was him, it would be magic.” It was a line that resonated with many — not just because of the sentiment, but because of how beautifully it described the kind of love that goes beyond romance, one built on mutual respect, comfort, and a shared understanding of life’s chaos.
For years, fans have speculated about the nature of their friendship. They’ve been spotted vacationing together, attending concerts, and sharing moments of laughter both on and off camera. Yet, Cohen has always been clear — their bond is purely platonic, something he values for exactly what it is. “John has one of the kindest souls I’ve ever met,” he said. “He’s incredibly thoughtful, curious, and loyal. We’re just very connected as people.”
The two met years ago through mutual friends and quickly formed a friendship that surprised even them. What began as casual conversations about music, life, and fame soon grew into a deep and genuine connection. “We talk about everything,” Cohen explained. “We have real conversations — not celebrity talk, not surface-level stuff. It’s very grounding to have someone like that in your life.”
Cohen described their friendship as one where vulnerability is natural and encouraged. In an industry that often thrives on competition and image, both have found a rare comfort in being authentic with one another. “We make each other laugh, we check in on each other, and we both understand what it’s like to be in the public eye,” he said.
John Mayer, known for his introspective songwriting and quiet charm, has also spoken fondly of Cohen in the past. He once called Andy “a lifelong friend” and described their connection as “one of those rare friendships where you don’t have to explain yourself.” Over the years, Mayer has performed at Cohen’s events, celebrated his milestones, and even joined him for his birthday parties — moments that fans love to see because they radiate genuine affection.
When asked about what a “typical night out” looks like for them, Cohen laughed. “It’s usually dinner, lots of conversation, some great wine, and music. We just have a really good time. He’s one of those friends you can call at any hour, and he’s there.”
While the internet often romanticizes their bond, Cohen takes it all in stride. “People can think what they want,” he said with a smile. “At the end of the day, we know what we have — and it’s special. Real love doesn’t have to fit into a label.”
His openness about platonic love is something that many find refreshing. In a world where relationships are often defined by categories, Cohen and Mayer’s friendship reminds people that love exists in many forms. It’s about connection, trust, and the ability to be your true self around someone without fear of judgment.
As Cohen wrapped up the conversation, his words carried both humor and heart. “If there were more friendships like this in the world,” he said, “we’d all be better off.”
For Andy Cohen and John Mayer, their story is proof that not every great love needs to be romantic. Sometimes, the most powerful bonds are those rooted in respect, laughter, and an unspoken understanding that goes beyond definition.
