August 16, 2025
HE TRUSTED AN AI CHATBOT. IT COST HIM HIS LIFE.
A 76-Year-Old Man Died After Believing He Was Meeting a Real Woman—Only It Was a Meta AI Chatbot That Lied to Him. I still remember the prickling feeling I had reading this story. A 76-year-old man from New Jersey named Thongbue “Bue” Wongbandue had been lonely and vulnerable—after a stroke in 2017, he struggled with cognitive decline and social isolation. One morning in March, he began packing a suitcase. He told his family he was going to visit a friend in New York City. The problem? No one knew who this friend was. Bue had not lived in the city